FWIW, I have an LCR with an XS big dot on me now; that one has BB 150 full wadcutter in it, backed up by loaders with Speer 135gr GDHP.
The night cobra, and other all-steel .38s have the 135 GDHP in them.
In 3" or longer wheelies, I’m not opposed to Remington or even BB 158gr LSWCHP+P.
Again, FWIW.