Just to add, check out
http://www.corneredcat.com/contents/ for tips for women and training.
Also, if you are willing to go to Washington -
https://firearmsacademy.com/
http://www.insightstraining.com/
That may seem far but being used to TX distances, it isn't so bad to me.
My two cents as a civilian consumer. What do you want to get out of it?
a. Firearms techniques - are the teachers wedded to one paradigm that may be seen as older nowadays with better choices
b. Practical procedures as a civilian carrier which include legal and decision making information for daily armed life
c. Law Enforcement or military usages - pure military backgrounds may not be congruent with some of the above
d. Does the instructor set credentials indicate that they have instruction in teaching firearms usage and related info. There are some recognized instructor programs out there - like Tom Givens. I think Gunsite and Ayoob run instructors classes. Knowing your stuff or performing doesn't mean you can teach them.
About gender issues - find some women graduates of the programs to get a hint. Males are clueless in most instances. Vicki Farnam gave a great talk about that. There are books oriented to women shooters that are worth the read by Vicki Farnam, Gila Hayes, Kathy Jackson.
Check out
https://www.agirlandagun.org/chapters/
There doesn't seem to be an Oregon chapter but there are WA chapters who might give you insight into the PNW area.