After being a multiple- decade 1911 shooter, I have the same issue with Glocks and XDs. My answer was to start grinding away the slide stops. I didn't want to change my grip since I continue to shoot 1911s and other frame mounted safety designs. If I were going to committ solely to the Glock platform, I would work on changing my grip. If you decide to go with the hardware solution, I take mine down where there is only enough left to lock the slide back. I have always used them as a slide lock, never a slide release.