Working in a gun shop I hear this phrase so often it makes my head want to explode, as typically the know it all ex Navysealsniperdeltadevgrusas friend of theirs is espousing this to be the only really important thing when it comes to buying a pistol. Atleast until we get to the P30, which hands down always feels the best, then they are willing to sacrifice what feels the best for what feels ok and still leaves them enough money in their checking account for some PBR on the way home from the shop.
Personally, this recommendation drives me insane as the way a pistol "feels" in my hand has nothing to do with the way I actually shoot said pistol. If that was the case I'd shoot my P30 infinitely better than a Glock 19 or a M9, and that's just not the case.
When I select a pistol for a carry pistol I select it based on these factors, in this order (greatest importance to least)
1. Reliability
2. Accuracy
3. Features (safety, no safety, light rail or no etc...)
At no point do I really take into account how the gun feels in my hand as I know with training, given that it's a quality firearm, I can learn to shoot it as well as any other similar pistol.
The perfect example is last week a couple came in wanting to buy a gun, they were told by their friend (who they proclaimed was an expert with all thing guns) to buy the one that felt best in their hands. As a result, they bought a Beretta PX4 compact instead of a Glock 19. Plus they thought the Glock was ugly, and the PX4 looked cool.
Has anyone here ever run into this and what do you think? When comparing guns of similar quality, size etc.. What role (if any) does "feel" play?