Scott Folk of Apex Tactical put out a set of Youtube videos regarding installation of the J-frame kit.
Disassemble:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JIUfmg1JulE
Even more important, reassemble:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ATrz7SSbpAk
Scott offers some advice on some simple smoothing on a few parts. We had a Spyderco Sharpmaker sitting on the kitchen counter, and used the ceramic stones from it. Nothing resembling aerobic activity, we just smoothed the internal parts a wee bit.
The only lubrication was a Shiner Bock beer after the shooting irons were put away. I did not add anything slippery inside the guts of the 642.