I really can't even believe this is still a matter of discussion. I'm not trying to be "internetcool" or "tactical" or anything of the sort.
Make as much fun as you want of the term "flash blindness," but it isn't just used on Wiki, nor is it in any way recent; it can be found in plenty of medical sources.
Would a peer-reviewed national medical journal satisfy you?
Or if you really want to insist on it coming from a military source, then so be it. They actually specifically referenced this "controversy" back in 1967:
Please give those researchers a call and let them know that their 1967 symposium was trying way too hard to be "internetcool" and that they're only allowed to utter the word "blind" when referring to braille readers.
As for your contention that such terminology should only be used when referring to 250 mW eye-melting lasers? CAPT Matthew Rings (Chief, Aerospace Ophthalmology - Eye Clinic, Naval Aerospace Medical Institute) apparently disagrees with you. In
his presentation for the 2013 United States Naval Aeromedical Conference, note his references to the risk of flash blindness from a 5 mW laser. You'll further note that the range for flash blindness risk is
beyond the range for eye hazard, suggesting once again that this term is in no way relegated to melted eyeballs, but rather refers to a temporary phenomenon that
doesn't require any damage to the eye.