Concealed means concealed, I never ask for permission and I never tell anyone ‘oh by the way, I have a gun on me’. It’s need to know and I’m the only one that needs to know.
Of course during physical contact she might discover it, but then again it’s really simple for me. My Glock, Sig, 1911, etc that is with me. Means more to me then you do, so if your asking me to choose. Well it’s been nice knowing you.
During my early college years I had a gf that didn’t like my hobbies: guns and flying. I started seeing it as a control issue. She wanted to control me. Didn’t happen. Later a different gf, tolerated flying and reluctantly tolerated guns. When her roommate started getting harassed by a big corrections officer my gf asked me to spend more time at her home - with my gun. We later split up but my interests weren’t the reason.
A few years later I met a very nice lady, took her shooting, took her flying, both went well. We’ve been married 38 years.
Unless it’s life or death related it’s all bullshit.