I guess I'm a compromise. When I pocket carry a J frame, it is one of those few SW 432 J frames with 6 shots. Tamara has one and few other folks do. I bought it when SW dumped them, when they were discontinued. The gun show had quite a few for $335. I should have bought two but was sending my kid through college.
As mentioned other times, I also have a SW 632 3 inch, hammered, comped, fiber optics revolver. If my Biden Ban went into effect that would be my EDC belt gun. I found the SW 19 just a touch bigger for my stubby little hands and a 686 was also. I've also mentioned that when I let loose a full power 327 mag as an outlaw gun in a match, the SO thought I blew up as did the spectators. You felt that in your palm. It sits, locked up waiting for it's times.
I might sound like a capacity zealot, but I worry more about the nut than the mugger where I live and work. Only a few miles from the Buffalo Tops. Some of my places of attendance have received credible FBI warnings (which didn't make the national news but we got emails).
I'm going to shoot my 642 in our next carry match. Can't shoot the 32s as USPSA has some religious ban on the smaller calibers. Reading a debate about why they don't have a 22 division was mind numbing.