The anonymous medical staff data is pure anecdote and should be treated as such. Without seeing the actual dataset, it can suffer from multiple flaws predominately recall bias and sample size bias.
The cited study is a mixed bag, though the concern about grouping 7.62x39 with handgun calibers is a little overblown; of 183 deaths in the study, only 1 person was shot with this caliber. Methodical flaws aside (mainly overlapping confidence intervals in the medium and large caliber group), the bigger takeaway is that you were more likely to die if you got shot multiple times.
I think we can all agree shot placement is king, but given all things being equal, a bullet that is constructed to maximize tissue expansion and reliable feeding in a caliber that allows for higher capacity and easier control seems like something we should strive for in a self defense role...