Oof. Thanks.
Slight thread diversion: This S&W experience is reflected in my attempting to purchase a lightweight .38 revolver a few year ago. I tried out numerous examples of J-frames from Smith, all of which felt "creepy" and ill-finished to my very inexperienced hands. I ended up buying a fell-out-of-the-ugly-tree-and-hit-every-branch Ruger LCR, which has worked perfectly for me ever since. This is another reason I like the Ruger 1911; previous positive experience.
I did end up putting all these options into a spreadsheet. My weighted evaluation scores aren't important, but in the event someone else is pondering a 1911 at the same price point, the upper part, with all the features cross compared is snapped below.
Barring any other pop up options, right now I probably have enough info to go gun shopping. If ya'll see any key aspect of this that I'm missing, lemme know. I don't know what I don't know.
The eventual purchase will likely depend on what's available, obviously. I'm probably leaning towards the Colt or Ruger, with the Colt being number 1. I'll keep an open mind on used options as well, and won't pass up a good opportunity to snag a decent working example, especially guns which are higher price point new but inside my mythical $1K budget.