Looking for some advise on a situation that has gotten pretty stressful. My wife's ex husband (she has two kids with him) is starting to do things that make me really uneasy. He has been typically just a pain in the ass, telling the girls not to like me, saying stupid shit to my wife, and refusing to meet me regardless that the girls live in our house the majority of the time. Now it has gotten where he asks the girls about everything we do, driving by my bride's work to see if she is there so he can pick the girls up from me, and now driving by our house to see if the girls are with her.
Kind of the tipping point for me tonight was I went out to the grocery store and she had our four kids in the house with her (her 2 and my 2 but they are our kids) and my truck wasn't in the drive way. He never calls to talk to the kids and texts her "im calling the kids" and called a couple minutes later. We are almost positive he is driving by our house multiple times a night to "catch her" and confront me about watching the girls.
This is more venting because I am a very private person and my house is my castle kind of guy. He is shattering that sense of reprieve from the world. The worst part is, I have never said anything bad to the guy or about him. I have been nice to him, respectful, reassuring, and tried to be the best step dad I can be (I was raised by one) when dealing with his bullshit. Tonight just pushed it to far for me but there isn't anything I can do.
I now have cameras charging to put up but man, this has been a lot more stressful then I thought it would be.