Back when I lived in NH my mail carrier loved delivering a 16 and a 24 kg kettlebell.
Here in WI my female UPS driver carried a 40kg up the driveway in a snow shower and asked where I wanted it
My mail guy loves me, my GSD hates him. I give him a $20 Starbucks card a couple of times per year and get better service than my neighbors. Don't be a cheap screw...
I know. I pointed that out to him. You should have seen the color drain from his face. I literally laughed at him and asked him if he would like me to pursue this further or are you going to stop snooping in other peoples mail and we’ll forget about this since your a neighbor of mine. He pretty much stayed away from me the rest of the time I lived there