There is a bit of the modern neo-aristocratic snob in that tone, the idea that the bourgeois need to Know Their Place and not try to emulate their Betters. Go back to your tiny house hovel, peasant! and live the way WE the Enlightened think is best for you!
Do the Obamas, Clintons, and others of the same exalted classes get a pass from the same people about their extra vulgar large houses? Or is it different for them, because they used the Right People to make bespoke customs buildings?