Had a laparoscopic bi-lateral inguinal hernia repair earlier this year. I told my Doc no opioids I'll be okay. He insisted by saying, "better to have and not need than to need and not have". I got by on ibuprofen the first few nights, never touched the oxy.
My wife has been through Hell this year, still there and pushing through. Breast cancer diagnosis (FUCK CANCER!). Double mastectomy and post surgery she took a couple oxy's for 2-3 days. She quickly discovered that she did not like the way the drug made her feel. She couldn't function. Fast forward to 3 weeks ago. Another surgery to remove tissue expanders and replace with silicone implants. When asked at the pre-surgical consult if she needed more pain meds she said she had plenty from the previous surgery. She hasn't touched them, just ibuprofen as needed. Watching what she is going through and worrying about her is taking a toll on me. Fortunately for me there is ice cream! <- I'm going to need to get that monkey off my back before I need a new wardrobe.