I think you’re worn out.
Doing Jiu Jitsu 2-3 days week killed me shooting for about a year or two. I didn’t not like guns anymore - I just didn’t find my interest in them.
I jokingly said “It scratches my need for violence” to my wife. But, it is a very martial skill. I’d say if you’re doing Jiu Jitsu 2-3 days a week that’s probably 7-10 hours. Not including travel time. If you’re running as well that’s another 3-5 hours (looking at prep time, travel time, etc.). You are shooting to that and you’re spending 20-ish hours a week on training.
I stopped doing Jiu Jitsu because of the toll it was taking on my marriage and having kids (less than 1 year old). Seriously. Once we had kids, etc. I realized being out of the house 3 days a week was rough on the marriage.
I once asked the couples at a Jiu Jitsu Christmas party how they maintained a happy marriage. Unanimously of the guys wives who would come they were either A.) pissed off at their husband or B.) they had no kids and had time for their hobbies and each other.
I saw that as a sign.
ETA:
There are exemptions, but that was my experience. There was a single family that did Jiu Jitsu together husband, wife, and kids.