Not sure of what level you were/are shooting at, but for me watching the superstars proved to be a detriment sometimes. What I like to focus on is the guy(s) that's just barely beating me and figure out why. Incremental improvement. Also, like it or not, (and some folks get mad at this) there's an element of natural ability that comes into play (especially now at 46) wherein I'm just never going to be as good as those guys.
living in SE Florida, I can definitely sympathize with the language barrier issues. For whatever reason, I found there to be a lot more all-Spanish-speaking squads at our local USPSA matches than IDPA.
that is a great suggestion, and maybe even be a good suggestion for the OP!Another way I was able to engage more in IPSC was by training and working as a range officer. Learning how to do this (ongoing) was interesting, and there was a time we were really hurting for ROs in this area, so more ROs helped get more matches. Most matches here have dedicated officials, i.e. they are not part of the squad as I have seen in some USPSA matches, so in small matches you would shoot half the day and work the other half. Big (level 3) matches have dedicated officials for the whole match, officials would usually shoot the day before the match started. But it is a bigger time commitment, and mostly on weekends when it is more difficult for me to get time off work.
There are no perfect solutions, and a solution that works may stop working as things change.
I was never a USPSA RO, but I started out shooting IDPA in... I dunno like 2003 and by 2005 I was an SO with my club, and eventually a board member, and eventually running my own 2-gun matches with the club as well as a drills night, and worked a couple of state matches as well (at the time, the free entry fee to said matches was really helpful to me)...
And becoming an SO really gave me a chance to stay active during the match and (eventually) I learned to learn from the shooters I was managing. I tended toward scorekeeper duties because I felt that (a) I was less likely to get shot and (b) my natural organizational skills and willingness to tell the tourists "hey, this'll all go much faster if you would help paste" helped keep the squad moving. Scorekeeping also had the benefit of helping me learn the game, the points, what mattered and what didn't, etc. And I could watch the shooter whereas the SO running the shooter really should be watching the gun.