That is exactly my point, thank you!
We designed the hobby around me being able to be with her rather than spending a lot of time away from her. It could have been piano playing or musical theater or whatever. But instead of modeling after sitting on the couch as our together time, she understands that we can have fun and together time while I'm working on progress as well.
Could have been any number of other hobbies. That was my point. It's as fun as doing whatever random thing dads do... but with a result.
Instead of a kid sitting at home playing video games, he / she could be doing a physical sport that actually gains them skill at something that might transfer to real life.
Again, I'm agreeing with you. Nobody in life gives a fuck if I make GM or not. If you were on a weightlifting forum, they might give half a fuck about your weightlifting. Or they might not if it was a weightlifting forum filled with people who used to lift weights decades ago and gave current advice like "you could step away from weights for a few years and you wouldn't lose much skill."
Agreeing again with you very much. GM for me isn't a goal as much as a reflection of the process and the process is what's exciting to me.
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Trooper224 it's the process that I enjoy as a student of things. Figuring out stuff and having the proof of concept that I actually did figure it out.
My life improves because I find joy and happiness in growth. My daughter will learn that success in career and hobbies doesn't have to be painful or exclude family closeness.
Yes, you could define "student" like the kid who skips school and doesn't learn crap but is technically a "student" because he shows up. But he's not mentally present.
My definition would be different, you are correct. Others don't have to share it.
GM's just part of the process. It's really about the fun and confidence to be able to look at something and shoot it more accurately and quickly than I ever thought possible. And that's fun for me.
Going to matches are like going to bowling league. But if I was going to hang out in a bowling forum for students of bowling, I wouldn't expect the predominant sentiment to be about people who bowl 90s and throw two handed between their legs, no matter if in a former life they were a pro bowler.
For fucks sake, this is what ToddG posted the purpose of the TRAINING JOURNALS section was for:
They were supposed to be about shooting, not 10:1 ratio of biking and deadlifts to shooting posts as it currently is in the training section.
But maybe those guys used to train in shooting so their current shooting journals don't have to have anything about shooting, amirite?
Different strokes and in 2021 culture everything is okay if it makes you feel okay, right?