Lots of wrong all around.
'I'm afraid to get out'; 'you should be' would have me honestly expecting to get shot by that cop no matter what I did. If you're pointing a gun at me and directly giving me reason to fear compliance with your commands, it only gets much worse for everyone from there. That was an incredibly poor response from that officer. Giving anyone reason to fear compliance with your commands just begs for resistance.
I'm also baffled as to why the fuck that LT has a goatee in uniform. There are many possible religious exemptions for beards (Sikhs, etc) but not a single one that would authorize a trimmed goatee like that.
If I were a cop with my mil service background, I'd be suspecting the legitimacy of that uniform because of the goatee. The 'stolen valor' types routinely get egregiously dumb shit like that wrong when they're cosplaying as a service member. Furthermore, using US military uniforms as a disguise to reduce suspicion when you're doing evil/illegal shit is a well-known phenomenon especially here in border states.
I'm assuming at this point that his status as a LT has been vetted, and honestly he did enough wrong in this shit to lose his commission. I've known other LT's of other flavors/genetics that lost their commissions for less, (dumb stuff at house parties, showing up at a political rally in uniform, etc) Senior Army leadership gets *really* annoyed when a commissioned officer does dumb shit in public *and* in uniform.
Given the politics though, I'm guessing he'll just get a big payday from this LE agency and there's going to be a couple of unemployed cops.
Police in my area, as aggressive as they have been in the past, have never pulled me over for 'nothing'. In general, especially in today's world, police will not pull anyone over for 'nothing'. I deal with any and all traffic stops from the premise of knowing that some LEO has RAS at minimum. It's on me to verify that it's a legitimate LEO, explain myself truthfully as asked, when asked, and dispel that LEO's suspicions of any further wrongdoing if possible. Then I should do all I can to professionally and safely accept a ticket if one is warranted, and comply with all of the officer's commands fully and immediately regardless of how reasonable I think they are.
Even if that officer is 100% wrong, being fully and completely compliant is both the safest path for my well being, and the best path for effective legal recourse against any wrongdoing.
Barring any genuine reason to fear for my life/limb/eyesight *even if I do comply* as was so poorly articulated by that officer, that is. As much as I'm bothered by the LT's appearance and behavior overall, that officer's words there are really what bugs me the most in this whole incident.