I’ve had reason and occasion to consider some of the ideas discussed in this thread and in the discussion that starts
here offline, and I’ve had a bit of a personal revelation.
We need to stop letting people off the hook.
When we “label” millennials, or any other generation for that matter, more often than not we give them excuses not to perform. Simon Sinek (who I’ve come to fucking hate) has a
viral video about Millenials and it’s all about how it’s not their fault, and it’s even not their fault that they can’t get over the fact that it’s not their fault... we gotta stop that shit. Fault or no fault, out your fucking big girl on ties in and do the work. Have a value. Show worth. Nothing else really fucking matters, frankly.
To my example in the other thread where they dug the ditch for the Haitian lady’s mangoes, stop enabling her to do nothing. Or, if she insists on doing nothing, forget her. Maybe go spend that ditch money on a school so we can fox her kids and grandkids. We can’t let her have one excuse after another why she “can’t”. Maybe she actually believes she can’t, but more likely, particularly after a path to “can” has been laid out, those reason’s aren’t really why she can’t, they are reasons why she WON’T.
boomers with their “I can’t understand technology” nonsense and then we let them off then hook for it. Fuck that shit. If there’s tee times, tides, fishing reports, or titties in that phone (or even if all you do is get on Facebook to gloat over how much cuter your grandkids are than your cousin Ethel’s) you miraculously figure it out. If you’re still drawing a paycheck you better get with the times. I don’t care if you’re 22 or 62. The real reason you “can’t do” technology is that you never kept up with the incremental changes and you probably should have been fired for it a long time ago.
And now we have Xers aging into that same mentality. I see people that are younger than me that need help setting up a gotomeeting for Christ’s sake.
Black, ADHD, Hispanic, Chinese, woman, gay, trans, left handed, albino.. whatever the fuck. Yeah, you probably face some challenges that the tubby middle-aged white dude doesn’t or didn’t. But you know what? No matter what your challenges, there’s someone else that faced them and BEAT them. Maybe it’s not your fault, but what you do with it is. And even if you fail, that’s nobody’s problem but your own. At some point you just have to acknowledge that you can’t be 4’-2” and 300lbs and play in the NBA. You just gotta own that shit and the the best you can.
All these riots and unrest, that’s a product of people being told they are DUE. That they are OWED. Both sides, BLM, Antifa, and the capitol rioters. You ain’t owed shit. Whatever your challenges, you gotta overcome them, and take that on for yourself.
So, on topic of the thread a bit, I’m over the whole “generational” thing. However true the stereotypes might be, they just blow up in our faces and manifest as excuses by the people wearing the labels. Fuck that. Do work.