I'm specifically just using the appropriate magazines with the appropriate frame-e.g., my Compact frame just gets used with Compact 15 round magazines, not the 17 round (or larger) Full-Size magazines. Problem averted.
If I situationally need more rounds, I'll perform a reload with a fresh magazine, as opposed to trying to shoehorn a larger magazine into the gun.
Best, Jon
The Wilson Combat carry-size frame (compact dust cover and 17-round sized grip) is good to go with factory 21-round magazines. The plastic in the grip and magazine baseplate prevent the magazine from contacting the ejector in a way that would cause damage.
It sounds like there is a market opportunity for 140mm extended baseplates that prevent over insertion on X/Legion and Wilson 320 grip modules.