So, I’m 5’10” and 160 (in the home gym covid world) and pretty scrawny. It’s shocking how easily a 4” K-frame conceals in a JMCK “George.” Easier than concealing a G17.
The way I see it, there are two ways to go for a “first” action revolver: classic, or new school.
Classic is a no-lock 3” round butt K-frame, period. There is a reason that the last revolver issued by the Feebs was so configured.
For new school—and, if you’ve been paying attention, you would know that I’ve literally owned then all—I’d either go with a “WC” spec Ruger GP with some compact grips, or, conversely, a 4” Kimber K6s “combat”. Get a dozen speedloaders, some ammo (if you can find or load it) and season to taste with the JMCK rig of your choice.
Done. JMO, but again, short of a Korth, you can’t name a common wheelie that I haven’t owned at one time or another.
ETA: needs pics...