I need to hone in on this concept a bit further. *Finally* a P-F topic that I, as a blue collar working class musician, am an SME in.
#1, if one hates their job, it’s subsistence living, no matter how many zeros in the paycheck. Actor Jack Nicholson said that.
#2, if one doesn’t have time to actually enjoy a little fruit of labor, per above, then one isn’t rich. I have had more than one doc, last-gen lawyer (the kind that are old enough to have made money) and multi-state business owner on my porch looking at my modest way of living decide to retire/cut back/liquidate. I’m happy to say that Mrs Totem and I have inspired more than one person towards the realization that they’d rather have time to work up music for an album or open mic, or write a book, than have a 3rd home.
#3, Having said that, an open secret of the music industry is how many of the folks out touring have money to fall back on. While I certainly know people who came from nothing, and became wildly successful in the arts, they’re in the minority, as viewed over the long haul. A HUGE number of our friends with serious music skills acquired over a lifetime of work came from dual-doc parents, or had a grandfather who founded a printing company selling receipt books to office depot, or a nationwide chain of tire stores, or a chain of restaurants, or... it’s a lot like the tech startup phenomenon described upthread. To drop out and go on the road, or drop out and start up a garage company, one must first have something to drop out of. I admit that this used to drive me nuts 20 years ago, when all of our friends were self-producing great albums at 20-75k a piece, and Mrs and I were living in our van.
#4 rich is a lot different in Troy, Idaho than in Tiburon, California. Not even remotely comparable.