If by "rural peace" you mean "asphyxiating in your home" ...
NYC is getting creamed because they are very densely populated, but there are good middle grounds.
Honestly, after all of this, it makes me really want to go back to Mayo Clinic for residency. Town of about 120k people but some of the most advanced medical facilities in the world. Plenty of opportunity to have a nice house and some land for a reasonable price and a world-class place to train. The clinical culture there is a bit...different... but you can't have everything in life i guess.
I'll be a little constrained by professional considerations when I apply for residency/fellowship but may have more flexibility afterwards. Montana is on the list, as is Maine and New Hampshire. I could also probably do Wisconsin, Minnesota and Iowa. Idaho too. Nevada, Arizona (high country) and Utah also on the list. Not from the South originally but some states do appeal, particularly Texas, Tennessee, Virginia, and the Carolinas.