That's so true about NY'ers. Having lived there till my 20's, then Oregon and TX - they have no conceptualization of country distance. When in NY, we used to drive to see my Grandmother 20 miles away and I swear it was we were planning a Gobi desert expedition for all the fretting. When we drove up to Buffalo, it took two days as my mom couldn't conceptualize being in a car for more than 4 hours. A one day drive from San Antonio to Tulsa would be incomprehensible. I told her once I was driving from Buffalo to Cleveland to visit a friend and she was horrified. Had some Buffalo relatives visit San Antonio and we drove 12 miles for BBQ - freaked them out.
Having driven across country - E to W, N to S, diagonally quite a few time - I had to laugh. My cousin in Greenwich Village told me she wanted to live in Wyoming. I asked her if she was down for miles of nothing - having driven it a few times - the idea stumped her. Visit a cowboy themed bar in Greenwich Village if you want to laugh. It was like guys in New Guinea wearing top hats and clocks around their necks.