Could she rack the slide on her own in a competent, safe manner with the slide in a fully closed position?
If we happen to run into each other you're welcome to try out my wife's P250 .380. I bought it for her as a present for finally moving to America, the idea being it might've been a better CCW option for her than her P226. She loves her P226, but she can barely rack the slide and cannot lock the slide open. Even with the P250 .380 and its outrageously light recoil spring, she can barely lock the slide open. I mean, dude, I'm not an engineer but it's my opinion that locked breech .380s are operating on the ragged edge of reliability. The RSA on the P250 .380 is so light that you can actually feel how sluggish the gun cycles, either when shooting or just during administrative handling.
The interesting part is that she's not who I would consider a weak female. When we worked EMS together, I never had concerns about lifting people when I was paired with her on truck, whereas that was a concern when partnered with most women. Her hand strength is sufficient that she can competently shoot double action a-ok, no problems......yet she can barely lock the slide open on that P250 .380.
Kinesiology/ergonomics are weird.