Being a father takes a bit more than donating some sperm, either directly to the mother or via the scenic route. Same for being a mother. Takes more than just gestating a child and delivering them into the world.
People have abdicated their roles as parents to a huge degree. We now have at least 2 generations who want to be friends first and latest after. Bad stuff happens.
I’d love to see more traditional family structures reinforced, but at the same time I’d settle for people just being parents.