Section 1
Don't buy a crap gun from a fly by night manufacturer and expect it to be awesome. I guess this would fit in all the sections.
Use quality ammo and quality magazines. Wilson Combat 47 7-round mags are a gold standard. Others will probably work fine, for example Colt 45 mags normally work just fine.
The 5" Government Model is still probably the most reliable of 1911 pistols given that the gun is made by a quality manufacturer. But really, Commander size guns should run great too.
Colt's dual recoil spring setup really does work nicely for their .45ACP pistols.
If you own one of these you are probably not a "communist faggot". Mods, strike this line if it's offensive.
Section 2
If you assume the cool looking 9mm 1911 sitting on the dealer shelf will work 100% out of the box you might be disappointed. Or you might not. Buy it and find out. But only if you've learned a thing or two about these guns.
Don't worry about lightweight alloy frames wearing out shooting 9mm. It will be fine.
If you have a 5" gun you probably need a 11# recoil spring. If it's a Commander then probably a 12-13# spring. Colt likes to over spring their 9mm guns a bit, Springfield Armory likes to under spring theirs. Colt's dual recoil spring setup is overkill for 9mm guns.
Your ejector may very well be contacted/pressured by the top round in an inserted magazine. To check, remove the slide from the pistol and insert a loaded mag. Observe the clearance between the top round and the ejector. If there is contact/pressure there it might make sense to relieve that part of the ejector or install a different one. Get the right kind if you do because not all ejectors are the same.
It might take some time, effort, and cost to determine what combination of magazines and ammunition work best in your 9mm 1911. Federal 124gr FMJ and HST rounds work best for me, but perhaps not for you.
Wilson Combat ETM magazines generally work pretty well in 9mm 1911s. That doesn't mean they will work best for everyone, or that other magazines won't work as good in your gun. Metalform, Tripp, Brownells, Ed Brown, or others might be just the thing for you.
Section All
Your 1911 will run dirty. It might not run very well if it is dry. Keep the gun lubed properly. If you want to do the 2,000 round challenge with your gun, fine. I've done it. But understand why it choked if it gets bone dry inside.
Learn how the gun works, including the extractor, ejector, sear, sear spring, disconnect, and safeties.
Learn how to test and tune an extractor.
Learn how to tell if the ejector needs to be replaced or possibly reshaped a bit.
Learn what the firing pin stop is and how it relates to the workings of your pistol, and why the one you have is probably just fine but you might get even better results with a different one. But don't even think about replacing it unless you really know why.
Learn how the safeties interact with other systems including the trigger and sear. Also learn how to fix them if they don't work 100% correctly or as nicely as you would like.
Learn what parts need replacement at what intervals. Especially the recoil spring and firing pin spring. Other things can wear out, but not with the same frequency.
Learn how to remove and reinstall the main spring housing and why a rubber band is handy in the cases where you don't intend to remove the sear spring.
Don't screw with the feed ramp unless you know what the hell you are doing.
Did I mention buy quality mags and ammo? If you are one of those people who buys cheap crappy mags and ammo because you don't think you should have to pay more to get the good stuff because the gun should be exactly like a Glock, just stop it. In fact sell your 1911 to someone who has a clue.
Buy some stuff. Like a tool to help remove the main spring housing retainer pin. And a good plastic gunsmith block. And good flat head screwdrivers. And some appropriate files and stones. Maybe a brass hammer and some punches.
Don't be a cheap bastard and expect to have a satisfactory 1911 owner experience. You might, but you sure as heck might not.
There are other things I'm forgetting, but that's a start.