There have been a large number of anti lgbt, anti reproductive autonomy, actions taken by trump and his enablers, with many more desired. Some of this is done nationally, some of it is done locally with national cover and blessing. Some of the judicial appointments you believe you’re pleased about from a RKBA standpoint will almost certainly cause decades of harm to lgbt persons and to reproductive autonomy. So when the nra goes all in on backing him and causes that don’t relate to RKBA, it creates pretty serious animosity and resentment among people who could be allies in the RKBA effort. Fence sitters go to the other side of the fence. Etc. Younger people, as they grow up and form opinions, think - what kind of people back RKBA? And they see Dana and her ilk and think, hmm, not good. The nra is spending money to undermine the future of RKBA when it does such things.
All this has been covered before. The way forward is people working together on RKBA, understanding that it is a right that protects us all. All of us, or none of us.
I have to laugh at statements like, well we shouldn’t court people who make certain “lifestyle choices” in the RKBA movement. Know what’s a lifestyle choice? To go armed or unarmed, to take responsibility for your own self protection, to be religious or not, to live with honor and integrity in a way that is true to who you are or not, etc.