I'm not sure what your point is here except that you are comparing others ammo to BB. That's apples and oranges. To compare you have to have the same bullet, primer, case, powder, etc. Then load a 125 and 158 using that criteria. If you use the same powder charge the 158 will produce more pressure. To reach the same pressure for both you will have to reduce the powder charge for the 158 which will make it slower. Any reloading manual will demonstrate that using the same components.
Now as far as BB, I don't know what they're doing to get 158 up to those velocities and they aren't revealing their pressures and nobody else is either. You can bet that their pressures exceed SAAMI 38 SPL. We all know that those are just standards and 20K psi round is safe in revolvers designed for plus P. There is no SAAMI rating for plus P. If there were it would probably be around 20K PSI. Not terribly hard to design around that.
My guess is that those other mfg's use 125's to reach the velocity threshold that allows their bullets to expand. Very few bullets will expand below 1000 fps. It's just easier to get a 125 above 1000 fps than a 158 if you have pressure issues like you would with 38 SPL. Hornady uses 110 gr bullets for non plus P 38 spl for that reason.