Try looking at the dot through something with a small round hole in it so that you can emulate a rear rifle sight. For example, you could use a buckle hole in a belt.
Get the hole fairly close to your eye and hold the pistol at a normal distance. If the dot is no longer blurry it is your eyes causing the blur. If the dot us still blurry when looking through the hole it is likely the optic.
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