Just because I heard this from an associate (BTW, a trusted associate I work with every day) does not mean it is not "solid evidence." Why would my associate lie to me about his father's death?
Does this mean that we should not trust anything anyone tells us unless we can personally experience it? I guess that would means we would have to ignore news reports, newspapers, textbooks and biographies because we didn't personally know the people or have direct experience.
If you want to "believe" that lead poisoning is a exaggerated threat, then just come out and say that.
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