I get a bonus 20# due to my height for us to have the same BMI. My goal is 175#, so I've got 50# to go. I honestly don't know if I'll even get there, but I'll keep working at it. For me to keep losing weight I have to stay in the 1500 to 1700 calorie range avg for my goal of 2# a week. I always use numbers for a sedentary lifestyle and take any exercise I do as bonus weight lost. It keeps me from making excuses that I can have a little higher calories per day just because I do some limited exercise, which leads to me cheating too much. I know that at 2200 calories a day average I do not gain any weight.
For salads I just use vinegar and olive oil. It's fairly low calorie and lubes up the veggies just enough. Funny enough, I also find it satisfying enough just to use salt and pepper at times.
You are right, for some reason we seem to lose weight from the perimeter in towards the belly. I show it first in my face, then I noticed my legs getting significantly more toned. Makes for a funny looking body, but people really will start commenting on weight loss based on just looking at your face.