If you’re asking advice, and start out by saying we’re ‘rude’ then i would humbly suggest you don’t move here.
We have enough stuck-up out of staters here as it is.
Outside of the major towns (Brattleboro, Rutland, Burlington, Barre, St Johnsbury) most people are pretty down to earth - farmers, loggers, etc. We’re not rude, unless you drive like an asshole, or stick your nose in our business.
It’s cold, yes, but if you don’t dress like a city-slicker, you’ll survive quite well. Wool, and layers of it, are the way to go.
The Burlington area is nice. Lots of micro-breweries, the lake is awesome for any type of summer sports (fishing, boating, etc) and you’re close to tens of thousands of acres of undeveloped forests to hunt, fish, and hike.
All in all, if you decide to move, here are a few tips. Don’t make a huge deal about the cold. We will laugh at you.
Don’t drive like you own the road. Obey the speed limit. Please. (55 statewide, unless otherwise posted)
If you drive an expensive/luxury car, don’t expect a warm reception. We see it every day with the ski-crowd, and it doesn’t impress us.