I'd suggest the ass-beater is responsible and you're a contributing factor.
On a somewhat related note, I just sat through 8 hours of implicit bias training that included a mix of LEOs and various community members. One guy was such a SJW he couldn't admit he'd feel some threat if 6 black males with guns drawn were walking toward him on the sidewalk. Obviously he's much too PC to be threatened by black males in any situation. It was an interest conversation, if one he and I could find very little common ground on. Figured I'd mention it as I had said upthread I'm seldom in the same setting as the SJW crowd.
Honestly, I thought *most* of the class was worth the time, but some of it was kind of filler or the instructors didn't fully understand the material. I was glad to see it wasn't all LEOs and that other perspectives were present, including those who don't necessarily like us. It wasn't presented as "your racist assholes who need to change this, this, and this" it was actually about bias and heuristics in decision making and how that affects social interaction. Pretty decent program. I was familiar with a lot of the material from reading the same authors and papers as I dug into decision making under stress, but I'd never applied it in quite the way they presented.
A lot of it reminded me of this thread and similar conversations, particularly with confirmation bias. Beyond the scope of this thread, I might go further in depth in the LE sub-forum of how that different perspective played out even in non-LE related scenarios. Example, video of several black children barely old enough to speak conversationally selecting a white doll to play with over a black doll and saying the white doll was the nice one. Civilians were more likely to say "racism". Cops were more likely to not answer, but instead ask a question like "what's the child's home life like, and is their teacher white or black?"