I think this is a "chick thing". My wife and daughters were all fairly picky eaters when the girls were young (wife still is). I'd go anywhere to eat. Deciding where to eat really became a joke to me. It was like pulling teeth to get any of them to pick something, and it did make a difference to them where we ate because they were so picky. I'd just start suggesting places I absolutely knew they didn't want to eat at until they'd finally tell me what they wanted. I think we have a meme in the "Butthurt" thread about a woman on death row with the last meal illustrating this point.
I think this is another "chick thing". Women can just talk about stuff, or not stuff, they just like to talk. Fella's are searching for information. You probably don't call your dad unless you have a particular question to ask him. You wife calls her parents just to check in. There is an old saying (that I remember well and often), "A son is a son until he takes a wife, but a daughter is a daughter for the rest of her life."My wife's experience ... But she has a fantastic relationship with them to this day. My growing up was more about us, the kids, and I rarely if ever speak to my parents today. Not out of any sort of animosity, just due to no share interests or experiences.
For family bonding, people knock it, but TV really was a pretty good "bonding" event for my daughters. They had a lot of activities, and were diligent about doing their homework as soon as they got home from school, but for "down time", they really loved just sitting together and watching TV. My girls are incredibly close to each other. They each have their own friends, but I think they'd rather spend time with each other than anybody. They really didn't do any specific activities together, other than the family travel, and watch TV together.