I brought this up in armorers class yesterday...it happened with an S&W M&P T&E gun I had a few weeks ago. I also noted to the instructor it happened some with my Glock. His response: It happens with most if not all polymer guns. He mentioned that they could fix it but at what expense to the performance of the gun. What you would have with a new slide stop/release with any 'stiffer' alterations would be just a 'slide stop', not the 'release' because it would be more difficult to release.
It is what it is. I have trained myself to slam my Glock mags in while simultaneously placing my left thumb on the release...it seems to make my reloads faster. Of course, that has draw backs...release it too early and you jam the beatch up!