Maybe.
Maybe it's because enough of the girls I've been involved with have had serious daddy issues that I'm pretty biased against this type of behavior.
I have no problem openly stating that it is impossible for me to be objective about this. I think the way that guy behaved was the complete opposite of how an adult male should treat a nearly adult female, but, what do I know? My opinion, and reaction to this is entirely emotion/principal based, as I have no experience parenting a teenager. The only experience I have addressing dissatisfaction with my parenting job is with a 6 year old, and she isn't nearly articulate enough to say she will never wipe my butt for me because I make her clean her room to often
Ask me again in 7 years.