I have a test for anyone who says that there is only a small difference between 9mm and .45 ACP.
1. Aquire a soft armor vest. (i.e. bullet proof vest)
2. Have 9mm and .45 caliber pistol
3. Acquire 10 rounds of self defence ammunition in both calibers, same brand for both.
4. Put on soft armor vest.
5. Load 9mm pistol with 10 rounds.
6. Shoot yourself in the chest (with body armor on) 10 times.
7. Take notes on how it felt and take pictures of your bare chest every day for the next 20 days. Do 20 pushups on 7th day. Note how it feels.
8. On the 21st day put on your soft armor vest again.
9. Load .45 with 10 rounds.
10. Shoot yourself in the chest (with body armor on) 10 times.
11. Take notes on how it felt and take pictures of your bare chest every day for the next 20 days. Do 20 pushups on 7th day. Note how it feels.
12. Now tell me there is only a small difference between 9mm and .45. Your chest will disagree with you.
This not a joke. It is reality. As a lifelong hunter, I know that differences in calibers do matter. It's the difference between a one shot kill and a one shot hit
that results in chasing a wounded animal for miles. Get real people.