Easy answer for me — Benelli M2 20 gauge with the youth length Comfortech stock. Recoil is modest, but even more important it is a much lighter, easier handling shotgun. Here is one cut down with AO sights (still has the higher comb from when it had a T1 on the receiver).
Likes pretty much everything in every caliber.
Why an auto? Seems like the next step for gun grabbers will be non-duck hunting autoloaders. I’d recommend a pair of 870’s, 12 for you and 20 for the Mrs. The 20ga youth model already has a shortened stock.
Additionally, they are the most ubiquitous shotgun in America. Aftermarket parts are available everywhere from Dicks/Gander/Academy type big box stores to Amazon to Wilson/Nighthawk/Suarez custom shops.
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Short stroking is very real--I have seen if too many times with not-very-experienced shooters.
An 1100 in 20 gauge is a bit heavy--but has relatively light recoil.
I bought a Mossberg 20SA for my 13 year old daughter to duck hunt with under the theory that it would have less recoil than a 12 gauge. I was just about wrong. She shot it for a season or two - and liked it just fine to hunt with. But I realized pretty early on that the recoil was nearly that of my piggish 11-87 12 gauge. When I finally convinced her to shoot the 11-87, she was good moving to a 12 gauge (which ended up being a Mossberg 930 with its gas operation and pretty light weight - this has been a good gun for her).
One thing about the 20 though, it was very fast handling and light. I liked it for that reason, but for ducks, the increased payload of the 12 outweighed the weight penalty. Incidentally, I recall that function was 100%. Also note that the Mossberg and Weatherby offering are essentially the same gun. I believe the Weatherby may have slightly nicer finishing and options, along with a slightly higher price tag. I did try to get a longer (non-youth) stock for the Mossberg before I sold it, but Mossberg did not have that option available at that time, which was a little frustrating.