So as to not further clutter up the truck thread, I'm making this one.
This is a ramble where I spill out my inability to make a decision as I attempt to purchase a new truck. For those who are just tuning in: My wife wants me to purchase a new truck and give my current truck to our son to help him start out in life. We agreed to this awhile back with the understanding I'd have something by March 2024. She would rather me buy actually new but the decision is mine. Whatever I pick, I'll likely be driving for 10-15 years absent theft/crash/meteor strike/etc.
Current truck: 2012 Ram 1500 Express 4x4.
Likes: Very comfortable, been dead nuts reliable, good power
Dislikes: Headlights are trash, Sylvania bulbs helped but still not great. 4x4 but not very off roady.
Intended purpose:
Long road trips: we take 1-2 week "circles" as far as Texas, Florida, Colorado, etc. hitting attractions and things along the way once or twice a year)
Light offroading: service roads, light trails, no hardcore rock crawling, mud bogging, etc. Just the ability to get off the beaten path to see sights we couldn't otherwise see.
Occasional truck stuff: Lowes runs, etc.
I'm considering a new F-150 Tremor, used F-150 Raptor, used Ram 2500 Power Wagon, and sorta-kinda considering various mid-sized trucks that are currently vaporware. New Chevy Colorado ZR2/GMC ATX4 and Ranger Raptor. Used Ram 1500 Rebel (2023 price hikes are nutso)
I've almost pulled the trigger on ordering a Tremor several times, but each time I get ready to commit I think "that rake is hideous" and my wife agrees. It's just ugly. So I'll either need to drop the rear a bit (lame) or level it and put 35" on it. This makes this the most expensive option, most likely, because I'm ordering the high package to get the good head lights and transfer case. New truck warranty, only I've farted in the seat, etc. Temptation to mod both suspension and motor is high. Wife likes it other than rake.
Raptor, I'd be looking at a 2019 or 2020. I could afford a new one at MSRP...but good luck finding one. I don't want to order and wait for 2 years and never get it, ala Bronco. Sporty, but not holy shit sporty. Temptation to mod motor is high. Wife likes it.
Power Wagon, not very sporty and it's a big boy. Wife suggests perhaps too big (giggity). 2019 factory certified is my cheapest option at the moment, fully loaded, all the options I want, 36k miles. Factory warranty to 100k miles. Feels like driving a mountain in both good and bad ways. Temptation to mod suspension is high. Wife hasn't seen it.
Rebel is the closest to what I have now. Few nitpicky things I don't care for, not quite as capable as the Tremor, but probably not enough to make a big difference. Difficult to find the options I want.
Canyon/Colorado: Doesn't actually exist. No idea if I'd like the 2023.
Ranger Raptor: Ditto. Plus delivery concerns. See: Bronco.
Not a truck, but Bronco WildTrak: Can't get one, can't test drive one, probably loud as fuck on the highway, afraid fun factor would wear off quickly.
Concerns with midsize in general: Same gas milage-ish, much smaller gas tanks = reduced range = reduced flexibility.
SUV concerns in general: Secure storage, inability to do the occasional Lowes run for truck-y stuff.
Non concerns: Towing capacity. Fuel costs, to a point. Resale value (they'll all be junk in 10-15 years). Insurance costs (I'm at that age/driving record where the differences are pennies).
Strong concerns: Long distance comfort. Light trail capability. Ride quality. Fuel range. Aesthetically pleasing. Can do my own preventative maintenance with relative ease.
Preference for domestics because reasons.
Budget: Would like to stay around $60k-$65k before taxes/fees. More would mean I'd probably finance some of it.