Wow, this thread has been a gold mine. Since September I've had reactive (rheumatoid) arthritis that has been in remission for decades flare up in my wrists and shoulders, apparently as a side-effect of arthroscopic surgery, which is pretty weird. Left wrist is especially bad, followed by right shoulder. I've been able to shoot a little with kind of a "modified harries" hold but without the flashlight
. But it hasn't been especially fun.
I've typically not been too impacted by recoil so I've never paid much attention in the past. Historically anything 9mm or 45 has been fine. 40 has been "sure I can do that, but why would I want to". Now I'm wondering if there might be an option softer than a gen3 17 that would make sense as defensive handgun. Obviously 22LR is an option if I just want to shoot. I would love it if the answer was "PX4 fullsize", I was already looking for an excuse to buy one of those. Could anyone give their thoughts on say G19 vs PX4 vs P239 vs P226/229 vs something like a GP100 with 38 loads? Obviously trying out a loaner is a good thought, but I'd like to get some input to narrow the field. I'm hoping to stick with 9mm, but am wondering if I am being too optimistic and if there will really be that much difference compared to my G19. I'm guessing the GP100 would be the softest of the above? With my shoulder issue there might be such a thing as "too heavy", but it is mainly the recoil right now.
Two notes, I have small-ish hands. Glocks are fine, given the technique of flipping the pistol in my hand to reach the mag release. P226 I managed but felt a little awkward, IIRC. Also I live in California so that cuts a ton of options off the list as not being on the "DOJ List".