I wear progressive lenses. Wraparound lenses are not compatible with progressive lenses. You do not necessarily need anything super large, but you do need a certain minimum lens height in order to allow room for the progressive lens.
I never pick out glasses without taking my wife with me. I would be certain to make a bad mistake without her input.
From the standpoint of comfort, if you can get an earpiece that extends back and inward against the side of your head, rather than around the ear, this is much more comfortable and secure in my opinion. Replace the hard plastic nose pads with elongated silicon nosepads - not the small round ones.
Get separate prescription sunglasses. Lenses that darken in sunlight rely on UV light to dargen, and will not reliably darken in a car.
Get polycarbonate lenses. They will provide the best impact resistance.
Progressive lenses require a small learning curve. You will need tolearn to read through the lower portion of the lens. You want to look straight out the middle of the lens for driving. The upper portion of the lens will have a small amount of distortion.
The good news for shooting is that progressive lenses have a mid-range section between the distance and reading portions of the lens, which is ideal for front sight focus. The bad news is that it is in the lower part of the lens, not the uppear part where it would do a shooter the most good.