Originally Posted by
DAB
if she has been exposed to, and has had a chance to try various pistols, and discover the pros and cons of each as they relate to her, then that's great.
a few weeks ago our club had an open house, and people were invited to stop by, see the facilities, and even shoot their own guns with some supervision from members.
a young lady, who had just bought a pistol found a willing member, who came across as some "expert instructor", and he proceeded to talk to her for over 90 minutes about how to load, unload, aim, unholster, holster, scan, move...... all she wanted to do was shoot her new little Kimber revolver. she didn't want a lecture, just wanted to shoot it a bit.
if she had been hooked up with me, that's what we would have done. i'd show her how to load it, aim it, shoot it, unload it. just what she wanted. and if i noticed that she was somewhat hesitant with it, or doing poorly, i likely would have asked her why she chose that gun. that would have likely led to me offering to let her shoot one of mine that i had packed along that day (Sig P320 in this case). just to give her a point of comparison. maybe she would have decided that her revolver was good for her. likely she would have experienced the reduced recoil of a full size pistol and that would have got her to thinking.
if a gun is unpleasant to shoot, then a new shooter is not likely to shoot it much, and thus, they won't get better anytime soon.
so start with a full size pistol, once you have somewhat mastered that, then think about going with something smaller.