Originally Posted by
XXXsilverXXX
Mods please move as you see fit was just thinking mindset would be best place...
We talk just about everything else here, and I was thinking about some past situations I had been in and one in particular. I was probably 19 years old didn't have a gun yet, had made it to purple belt in BJJ in my youth, loved my knives, was strong enough for a Fat man, and always carried a knife. I was talking to my car after a great workout in a semi nice area in a lit parking lot, and I noticed this guy and his girl standing by a car didn't even look or think twice, and as I'm walking to my car the guy starts making a b-line to me, and yelling something about me looking at his girl and somehow having offended her, I've personally never seen either of them in my entire life. Guy was about 6'3" maybe a bit taller and built (to my 5'11" 260 poundness), 100% knew that if I got into a fight with this guy I would lose and probably die. So I ignore the guy and while continuing to walk to my car get my knife out of my back pack 5" kickback folder (totally illegal for me to carry concealed). Ignoring him just didn't seem to make him stop at all, just seemed to enrage him even more, so as I get to my car he is about 30 feet away from me I turn around with my back to my car and start yelling back at him asking what his problem was, just kept yelling about how I somehow disrespected his girlfriend. I as calmly as possible tell him I am sorry but I didn't, and he keeps walking toward me in an even more aggressive manner, so I open up my knife and prepare to at best lose a few teeth and break a few bones, at worst die. And as he is within 10 feet of him notices the knife comes to his senses and walks off saying that it's not over, and he will see me another day when I'm not hiding behind a little knife.
My thing is now as I have gotten older, not as strong as I was before, not even as fat, can't carry a gun, knife or anything 90% of the time because of my job, and Not wanting to get into a fight, are there any ways to defuse situations like this without resorting to a violent option, especially if the attacker is just to far gone in their own little world to even care if someone has a knife or even a gun?