I'm not sure how much this has been discussed but I'm not really sure how to search for it or really even how to title the thread. I did attempt to search and I found a kinda similar topic from 2012 but I was hoping to get some advice a little more specific to my situation. If it's a beat-to-death topic than let me throw myself on the mercy of PFC and beg forgiveness right now.
So for 11 years now I have worked as a civilian armed security guard for the Department of the Army. I carry a carbine and a bog-standard clapped-out Beretta M9 which I'm not allowed to change anything on and it must be carried empty chamber, safety on. Luckily I have large enough hands that I can work the backward-ass safety without any trouble. Ever since I got my concealed carry permit I've been carrying Glocks because I prefer striker fired guns. I probably should have figured this out a long time ago but I suspect it's probably not the best idea to do things that way, right? I should probably be carrying something off duty as close to my issued sidearm as possible. I did recently trade in my USP compact for a 92A1, my first personally owned gun in that family, so I could be practicing with something akin to my duty weapon. I was tempted to order of bunch of the upgrades for it from Beretta and/or Wilson but I'm starting to rethink that for the time being. Up until now I had been practicing with my old Ruger P95DC.
So should I change my off duty to match my on duty or am I overthinking this? I don't think I am since an M9 and a Glock 19 are so different.
I wouldn't mind a 92 compact but does it need to be the same family of handguns or would it be alright to stray from the 92 platform? I've also been eyeing the PX4 series and the subcompact model would be a nice option to have when I can't dress around a larger gun for whatever reason. I am also a fan of the S&W classics so getting one of those would be a treat. What other options might one consider? I also like the Ruger P-series but the mag release on the 9mm variants if different than any other handgun I'm aware of and it's hard to reach with my thumb.
Should I be carrying empty chamber, safety on like I'm required to on duty? I know it's handicapping myself but I would think the consistency would offset that to some degree.
Any and all advice is greatly appreciated and I thank you for taking the time to read this post and help me unfuck myself.