Everyone has an envelope of comfort, if you will, when they have a loaded gun pointed at a major artery. That envelope is different for everyone- some require an exposed hammer to be comfortable, some a thumb safety, and some people are perfectly comfortable with no safety other than not pulling the trigger. For lots of people the short, light PPQ trigger is outside that envelope. This is not "bs" or even unreasonable, it is a part of the human condition. Different people are going to like different things.
There is no reason to be hostile because people have different tolerances for danger, or perceived danger.