So, I apologize in advance if this is too personal. I am sort of at my wit's end and just need some quasi-anonymous advice on a delicate situation.
To make a long story short, I've been dating a classmate of mine for the last 2 years. She has progressed into cycles of extreme and irrational jealousy that culminate in episodes of heavy binge drinking and explosive anger that, as of the last week, has escalated to physical violence (hitting, slapping). I of course turn the other cheek. Currently crashing at a friend's place after today's episode, which is the straw that has broken the camel's back.
I now know that I am in a bad situation and need to get out. Any advice on what I can do to get myself out safely while protecting myself legally, fiscally, physically, etc. would be extremely appreciated. I want to do the right thing and any thoughts on how to conduct myself with dignity and grace in this situation are equally welcome, particularly given that we are both in the same very small program.
One reassuring detail I can hare is that we have zero joint assets, no kids, no pets, no wedding ring. Everything in our respective names, no joint accounts. The most expensive item of ambiguous ownership is a $130 set of pans. She is welcome to it.
Thanks for listening and sorry again if this is too much.