Retired 9 years ago .. 25 years in Correction's.
City Jail .. Medium Security .. Max Security and Super Max.
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JMO... Tell her to be the same from day one.
Inmates and Convicts hate Officers who flip flop .. one day a hard ass the next day easy going.
Don't tell inmates any personal info .. Don't date staff members.
Don't act like a bad ass if you cannot back it up .. Learn the rules and regulations.
Be fair .. you are not there to punish inmates .. you are there to baby sit them.
If she needs any help send me a private message .. I talk better than I write if you want to call me.
Good luck !