Hubcap,
I have a few years on you but I'm a green hand with insufficient handgun experience to offer any meaningful suggestions. New York reloads are prohibited here. In 2013, I got my first pistol - a 9mm Shield which I now carry with a spare magazine. Although I have a small frame, the Shield is a little thin for me (Glock 26 way too thick!). I have a S&W 637 that I generally only shoot at the range. It came as a surprise to me that I liked the DA trigger. So as soon as I become more proficient with the Shield (as of now my accuracy begins to suffer beyond 15 yards), I intend to move to a DA/SA auto loader for EDC.
LSP972, I wish you a speedy and complete recovery. In another post I recall you had mentioned you were scheduled for surgery. Couldn't send you a supportive comment because I wasn't registered and I didn't know whether I'd join up. A year and a half ago, I had surgery. Well, I'm above ground, but I have to make adjustments in living with some bad residual effects. Hang in there, I'm hoping you will be alright.