This thread should be a "must read" for all people considering going to training. I'm in my 40's, but only about 3 years into getting serious about concealed carry and the lifestyle that goes with it. I have been lucky with the regional courses I have gone to and have learned things at each one. I stumbled across a Kyle Defoor video on you tube about choosing who to train with a while back. For CC guys he recommended getting some hand to hand skills and medical. I have been to some hand and knife classes now and have a medical lined up for April.
It is a reality check though. I am fairly decent with a pistol due to a lot of rounds, courses, IDPA, etc. I still feel completely incompetent in the hand to hand area. It's much easier and more fun to go do what you're good at. Humbling to go and be the new guy....